独自旅行

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我又EMO了。

在人生中偶尔要体会一下独自旅行。



独自旅行不一定要出国，也不一定要去游走。它可以是一个心灵上的旅行。当然如果是实际性地出国旅行，也可以是一种心灵上的旅行体验。



独自旅行是一个强化心智的过程。通过独自旅行，我们能够学会不依赖别人，学会自己做决定，自己为自己的选择负责，并找寻适合自己的道路。独自的好处在于不被别人所支配或束缚 - 旅途中要跑，要走，要停留，要摸索都行。自己能享受属于自己的自由。



独自旅行的途中我们会遇到同道之人，帮助我们的人或情同陌路的过客。也有可能遇到想某害我们，利用我们或骗我们的人。无法辨识的人既可以对所遇到的人和事都视若无睹，可那不就浪费了此行的意义。人来人往，缘聚缘散，也不需要太执着。



独自旅行并非孤立自己 - 而是让自己走出自己的狭小舒适范围， 从而增长智慧，了解自己，了解更广阔的天地和人事物。



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Comments

  1. CreateWealth888825/04/2021, 13:50

    I walk alone since I have no idea where it ends and where it will begin.

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    1. Rainbow25/04/2021, 18:06

      Hi Uncle8888,

      Often it ends at where it began.

      Delete

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