Life isn’t easy, but it goes on. Instead of griping (as the saying goes, “人生不如意事十之八九”), it’s wiser to focus on risk management and, more importantly, becoming anti-fragile . Basic risk management means protecting ourselves: buying insurance, setting stop-losses, cutting toxic ties, and avoiding reckless decisions. But as Nassim Taleb points out, anti-fragility goes beyond that. It’s about growing stronger through chaos . Rather than fearing volatility and uncertainty, learn to turn them into opportunities . Quoting the video, we should learn to "transforms fear into prudence, pain into information, mistakes into initiation and desires into undertaking" . Toughen the mind If you desire something exceptional, accept the tough journey that comes with it. One way to build resilience is to imagine the worst, as highlighted in the video : If everything were stripped away, could you still cope and rise again? This kind of mental training and life practices build true strength. ...
In my previous post The best credit card for my new house renotion , I compared some credit cards that I owned and have chosen the Maybank Family & Friends card as the best credit card that I would use for my new home's spending. Today I received an email from Maybank regarding some updates to the Maybank Family & Friends Card Cashback Programme starting from 1st January next year. Let's take a look. What have changed? Revisions Description Cashback Awarding for selected cashback categories and additional bonus category Tier 1: Up to 6% cashback with a minimum spend of S$800 per month (capped at S$20 per category) Tier 2: Up to 8% cashback with a minimum spend of S$1,600 per month (capped at S$30 per category) Base cashback 0.22% cashback on all other spend Eligible Merchant Category Codes (“MCC”) in selected cashback categories Commute (previously “Transport”) MCC 4111, 4121, 4789, 4112, 4131 Automotive (previously “Pharmacy”) MCC 5541, 5542, 5532, 5533, 5599, 7531, 75...